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Soft Skills Within a Christ

Soft Skills Within our Christ-Centered Vocations: Life-Changing for Leaders

In the modern world, soft skills are often associated with career success and personal development. An accepted definition of such skills is “personal traits and communication abilities that help people succeed in their jobs.” From a Lutheran perspective, these skills can be deeply tied to our vocation (calling) and the way we reflect Christ’s love to the world. Martin Luther taught that all work, when done in faith, is service to God. Such skills can be tools for living out our Christian faith, and to be influencers. Let us explore how each of these skills can inform our lives of service.

Lifelong Learning

We pray for ongoing growth in faith and understanding. Martin Luther himself was a strong advocate of education, believing Christians should always seek to deepen their knowledge of Scripture and God’s world. Learning is how we steward our minds, equipping us to serve Him and others more effectively in our vocations.

Why is this important? Reading, practicing new skills, taking a class, or getting an advanced degree can bless themselves and others.

Emotional Intelligence

The ability to understand and manage our emotions while also empathizing with others is vital in Christian relationships. This includes working at building positive relationships and managing conflicts successfully. Christ Himself demonstrated this when interacting with people, responding with compassion, patience, and wisdom.

Why is this important? High EQ improves interpersonal relationships, leadership, and conflict resolution.

Adaptability and Flexibility

The Christian life is full of challenges, and adaptability allows us to trust in God’s plan even when circumstances change. Paul exemplifies this as he learned to be content in all situations, whether in abundance or need (Phil. 4:11-12). Flexibility in our calling allows us to follow where God leads, even when His plans differ from our own. This also includes the ability to adjust to unexpected obstacles and think creatively to overcome them. This soft skill includes a willingness to embrace new ideas, processes, and challenges.

Why is this important? In today’s fast-changing environments, adaptability and flexibility help individuals stay relevant and thrive in various circumstances.

Dependability (Work Ethic and Professionalism)

Being reliable reflects faithfulness. This can include consistently meeting expectations and delivering quality work. It means being honest and ethical in all professional dealings. This includes maintaining focus and dedication to tasks. A Christian who keeps their word and fulfills their duties glorifies God and earns the trust of others.

Why is this important? Whether in work, family, or ministry — dependability is a powerful witness to Christ’s faithfulness in our lives. It also builds trust, promoting long-term success.

Time Management

Our time is a gift from God. We should use it wisely. Managing our time well allows us to be effective in our vocations and service to others. Determine which tasks are most important and allocate time accordingly. Keep track of deadlines, appointments, and responsibilities. Know how and when to delegate. Prioritize time – which can ensure not wasting the precious moments He has given us.

Why is this important? Good time management maximizes productivity, reduces stress, and ensures timely delivery of completed projects connected to ministry.

Resilience and Stress Management

Trials and setbacks are inevitable, but resilience enables us to persevere in faith. Jesus Himself endured suffering and calls us to remain steadfast in the face of adversity. Developing healthy methods for managing stress are of critical importance, like finding balance between work and personal life. Understanding and practicing self-care helps to remain focused and effective. Through Christ, we have the strength to endure difficulties and emerge stronger in our faith.

Why is this important? Managing stress can ensure long-term productivity, mental well-being, and work-life satisfaction.

Communication

Clear and compassionate communication is essential in spreading the Gospel and in building relationships. The Bible repeatedly emphasizes the power of words to either edify or harm. Communication includes an incredible number of variables, including verbal, written, nonverbal, listening skills, and follow-up — to name a few. Effective communication allows us to share Christ’s love, resolve conflicts, and encourage one another in the faith.

Why is this important? Excellent communication can foster collaboration, prevent misunderstandings, and ensure clarity in team settings.

Problem Solving and Critical Thinking

Breaking down complex problems and understanding their root causes is one way to tackle the importance of solving problems. Creative thinking by generating innovative solutions or approaches to problems can be unique and effective. Making sound judgments based on available information is a strength that assists us as church workers.

Why is this important? Problem-solving is essential in any role that involves decision-making, troubleshooting, or innovation.

Creativity and Innovation

These skills help us to think “outside the box” by generating new, unique ideas. It is important to learn and explore new concepts. Willingness to try new methods and take calculated risks helps one to be both creative and innovative.

Why is this important? Creativity fosters innovation, which is important for growth and in being competitive.

Attention to Detail

Being accurate, precise, and thorough in completing tasks creates a culture of excellence. Being consistent here is key, by doing one’s task that meets quality standards repeatedly. One common example for teachers is proofreading by checking work carefully to eliminate errors.

Why is this important? Diligence ensures quality output, preventing costly mistakes and improving credibility.

God’s Word is our Foundation the Soft Skills We Use

“Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance.”   Proverbs 1:5

“Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life.”   James 1:12

“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”   Colossians 4:6

Soft skills are valuable tools for Christian living. As we develop these gifts, we grow in our ability to serve God and our neighbors effectively. In doing so, we fulfill our vocations with faithfulness, always seeking to glorify God in all we say and do. Let us continually strive to grow in these areas, trusting in God’s grace to guide and strengthen us. And…serving God’s children with such gifts can provide benefits and blessings!

Dr. Wrege served in Lutheran schools for 39 years, first as a teacher and then as an administrator. He is currently the School Funding Executive for DAST Consulting. Within this position, he assists Lutheran schools to become more sustainable through additional funding opportunities. When Lutheran schools thrive, more children can be served with the Gospel. Tom can be reached at twrege@DAST.CO